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What would you do?

Filed under: on motherhood — happymama at 7:48 pm on Monday, April 23, 2007

I like to have the house a little extra tidy for Sundays.  It helps me relax and enjoy the day.  (Hence, if you’ve read my earlier posts on scheduling & priorities, you’ll understand why I schedule cleaning bathrooms & windows on Saturdays.)  This past Sat. night hubby took our oldest child to a ball game, and the infant was sick & sleeping.  I decided to finally get the kitchen floor mopped.  The 2-year-old could “help.”

Everyday (sometimes twice) I sweep the kitchen floor.  It often needs mopped, too, but I have this mental hang-up about mopping unless I’ve first swept.  And if I’m going to sweep in preparation for mopping, I always think, well if I’m going to go to all this trouble then I should wipe the table, high chair, and counter tops first, because you know when wiping them crumbs will inevitably fall on the floor.  But before I can do the wiping, the dirty dishes must first be removed & piled in the sink, the recyclables put away, the trash thrown away, the pb & j put back in the pantry.  And by the time I do all those things, I’m too tired to mop.  So it doesn’t often get done.

Sunday morning was not fun for me, because I had been up most the night with my little one (who couldn’t breathe through his little nose,) but seeing that clean kitchen certainly helped my mood.  I held my breath and waited to see how long it would last.  I didn’t have to wait long.

In the afternoon, I made smoothies.  With blueberries.  Outstanding nutritional value, but prone to staining whatever they come in contact with.  The baby was once again napping, so I crept down stairs for a few minutes while the kiddos enjoyed their snack.  Through the floorboards above me, I heard a lot of naughty giggling.

Five minutes into my respite, I headed back upstairs to see what was so funny.  After what I saw, this is what I imagine happened:

  • 2-year-old spills a drop accidentally on the table.  Decides it would be fun to draw in the mess.
  • 4-year-old thinks, “hey, that looks like fun!” and not-accidentally spills some of his drink, too.  He finger paints a landscape.
  • 2-year-old is watching and absentmindedly wipes his messy hands on his shirt.
  • 4-year-old sees the messy shirt and thinks, “hey, that looks like fun!”  And dips his hand in his cup & wipes it all over the front of his shirt.  Also thinks, “hey, mom’s not in here anyway.  I won’t get in trouble.”
  • 2-year-old pours remaining smoothie all over the table and rubs it all over to make sure the entire surface is covered.  At this point, hysterics set in & smoothie gets rubbed all over the floor, the high chair, their faces, and their shirts. 
  • 4-year-old hears mom coming and says, “quick, run to the bathroom and wash our hands!”  Also thinks, “I’m gonna get it.”
  • 2-year-old follows obediently, but trips on the carpet in his hurry and smoothie ends up soaking into the fibers.  Mom witnesses this part.  Dad comes out of the bedroom - he also didn’t feel well and had been trying to rest.

What would you have done?  What should we have done?

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Comment by Amy

April 24, 2007 @ 7:26 pm

LOL - that is too funny. Did you take a picture?

And wow, I think I could have written your second paragraph myself about word for word.

What would I have done? Sent them to separate rooms for time out while I pour myself a glass of wine (or maybe amaretto?). Then get the wet soapy rags ready for them to at least try to clean up. What did you do?

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Comment by happymama

April 26, 2007 @ 7:33 am

Ha! Maybe we should just get together sometime and share that amaretto!

I wish I always had hours (or days) to contemplate every parenting situation. Sigh…

Needless to say, part of their consequences are watching me make smoothies for myself this week, and watching me drink them all by myself this week!

Gotta run.

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